Women and Sexuality



Women and Sexuality


Marianne Brandon



Few subjects generate as much interest, concern, confusion, controversy, and emotion as sex. Human sexuality is a broad concept that incorporates interactions among a wide variety of factors, for example, anatomy, physiology, interpersonal relationships, and sociocultural factors. It is helpful to approach sexuality as a paradigm that represents the intersection of factors influencing both gender (personal, psychological, and culture constructs that reference various characteristics as “male” or “female”) and sex (biology) (Fig. 9.1). Sexuality and sexual health are topics relevant to all women, from adolescence through old age. As our culture becomes increasingly sexualized via the media and the Internet, women struggle more and more with sexual concerns. A woman’s relationship with her sexuality relates to her sense of self at the deepest and most profound of levels. It impacts her experience of herself as a woman and her sense of personal power in the world. It is common for women to silently struggle with questions such as “Do I take too long to orgasm?” “Why can’t I have a vaginal orgasm?” “Am I sexually attractive?” or “Are my sexual fantasies normal?” Our culture promotes myths about female sexuality that encourage unhealthy expectations in women. For example, we embrace the notion that if a woman marries the “right” man, her sex life will automatically be active and satisfying. In reality, couples have to work to keep their sexual relationship gratifying over time. The belief that only young women are sexual is equally damaging. In truth, most middle-aged women know their bodies better and are more experienced at giving and receiving sexual pleasure than young women. Further, the idea that most people do not have sexual problems or concerns leaves women (and men) with sexual dysfunction feeling alone and ashamed. In actuality, research shows that 43% of women and 31% of men report a sexual dysfunction.1

Most women agree that a satisfying sexual relationship is a key aspect of their intimate connection with their partner(s). Research indicates that adults who are sexually gratified tend to be happier in their relationships and physically healthier than those who are not sexually satisfied.2 Attending to your patients’ sexual issues can thus have a significant positive impact on their lives physically, emotionally, and interpersonally. Unfortunately, however, addressing female sexual dysfunction is not simple. First of all, there is the issue of time. Evaluation of a sexual complaint cannot be fit in to the 7 or so minutes allotted to each patient in the busy OB/GYN practice. The economics of time and insurance reimbursements simply do not allow such an effort. Second, most clinicians do not have the background information to support active participation in the sexual interview. Sexual medicine is part of the standard medical school curriculum in too few centers around the country. And finally, there exists much controversy about the assessment and treatment of most of the diagnoses we review here. This is largely because the field of female sexual dysfunction is relatively new. Prior to a decade ago, most of the sexuality research focused exclusively on men. As our knowledge of the field grows, it is evident that men and women are very different sexual beings, and research findings cannot be easily generalized from one gender to the other. More recently, researchers have begun to focus on women subjects. However, placebo effects are significant and they complicate the interpretation of results.3 The benefit of just opening communication channels, coupled with a patient’s positive expectation of results, drives this high placebo effect.


SEXUALITY THROUGH THE LIFE CYCLE

Although we tend not to think in these terms, children are sexual beings. To their parent’s dismay, toddlers can discover that masturbation feels good. Even before adolescence, children become consciously aware of their sexuality. Children growing up in Western societies are constantly bombarded with sexual images via multiple media outlets such as billboards, the Internet, and TV. Children’s sexual experiences can and do impact their sexual experiences as adults. For example, instances of sexual pleasure as children can play a pivotal role in an adult’s sexual fantasies. Also, how parents respond to a girl’s budding sexuality in puberty will impact how she perceives her sexual self as an adult.

Adolescent girls reach puberty and sexual maturity at earlier ages than ever, with the average of menarche now at 12.5 years of age.4 Approximately 50% of high school teens report having had sexual intercourse, and about a third report being currently sexually active.5 Studies show that about 5% of teens identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual, and over 10% of girls and 2 to 6% of boys report having experienced same-sex sexual activity.6,7 Although adolescent development varies depending on the chronological age and level of maturity of the individual, by
midadolescence (ages 15 to 18 years), many teens start to have romantic relationships and may engage in risk-taking behaviors such as unprotected sexual activity or substance use. Teens who engage in oral sex are likely to participate in vaginal sex soon thereafter, that is, within the next 2 years on average.8 It is important for providers to address issues of sex education, pregnancy, contraception, sexually transmitted infections, including HIV, and teen-dating violence or date rape with all adolescents, regardless of sex or sexual orientation. Young women struggle with their own set of sexual challenges and concerns. The cultural stereotype is that women in their late teens and 20s are the sexiest and most sexual of all age groups. Interestingly, they report as many sexual dysfunctions as other age groups.1 Thus, the most sexualized women in our culture are also very concerned about their sexuality. At the other end of the age continuum, elderly women have their own sexual struggles. In a culture that expects them to be uninterested in sex, it can be difficult for older women to seek help for their sexual concerns. In truth, women of all ages often assume they are alone with their sexual issues, leaving them feeling ashamed and embarrassed. Simply informing your patients that their concerns are common can go a long way in alleviating their distress.






FIGURE 9.1 Paradigm of sexuality. (From Physicians for Reproductive Health. Beyond abstinence and risk: a new paradigm for adolescent sexuality. http://prh.org/teen-reproductive-health/arshep-downloads/. Accessed November 24, 2013.)






FIGURE 9.2 Circular model of human sexual response showing cycle of overlapping phases. (From Basson R, Schultz WW. Sexual sequelae of general medical disorders. Lancet. 2007;369:412; Adapted from Basson R. Female sexual response: the role of drugs and the management of sexual dysfunction. Obstet Gynecol. 2001;98[2]:350-353.)


DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE SEXUALITY

Men and women are very different sexual beings. “Sexual interest, motivation, arousal, and pleasure are triggered and experienced quite differently by men and women.”9 Historically, Masters and Johnson proposed a physiologic model of normal sexual function describing a linear progression from excitement to plateau, to orgasm, and then resolution. This model may still, by and large, be applicable to men, but it is clear that the female sexual response cycle has more dimensions that must be considered in addressing sexual health and sexuality issues (Fig. 9.2). For many women, the phases of the sexual response cycle may repeat, be absent, overlap, or occur in different sequence during their sexual encounters. Unfortunately, most women compare their sexual reactions to their male partners, expecting to have similar desire patterns and responses (Table 9.1). For instance, a response to pleasurable activity may trigger desire that was not there initially. These differences may leave women feeling deficient or dysfunctional. Some of the ways men and women are different sexual beings include the following:



  • In women, there is overlap among the various sexual dysfunctions, whereas men’s sexual dysfunctions
    tend to be more distinct and specific.10 For example, desire and arousal disorders often co-occur in women, whereas with men, premature ejaculation and low libido are more separate diagnoses.








    TABLE 9.1 Sexual Response Cycle





























    Cycle Phase


    Features


    Gender Differences


    Desire


    Physiologic factors (neurotransmitters, androgens, and sensory system) and a wide variety of environmental stimuli (psychosocial and cultural factors)


    Desire causes a person to initiate or be receptive to sexual activity.


    Women: touch, verbal stimuli, and relationship of greater import


    Men: visual stimuli of greater import


    Arousal


    Parasympathetic nervous system and vascular system


    Breathing becomes heavier, heart rate and blood pressure increase, and reflexive vasocongestion occurs.


    Women: vaginal lubrication and enlargement of clitoris


    Men: penile erection


    Plateau


    Parasympathetic nervous system and vascular system


    Vasocongestion phase is at its peak; sexual tension increases and then levels off immediately before orgasm; there are carpopedal spasms, generalized skeletal muscular tension, hyperventilation, tachycardia, and increased blood pressure (by 20 to 30 mm Hg systolic and 10 to 20 mm Hg diastolic).


    Women: maximal vaginal lubrication and genital vasocongestion


    Men: distension of penis to its capacity


    Orgasm


    Sympathetic nervous system and muscle tone


    For both sexes, there is heightened excitement to a peaking of subjective pleasure, followed by release of sexual tension; awareness of other sensual experiences is diminished, and the person becomes self-focused; pelvic response consists of involuntary contractions and myotonia; tension may be felt and seen in neck and face (grimaces), buttocks, thighs, and toes; there are carpopedal spasms, contractions of arms and legs, external rectal sphincter contractions, external urethral sphincter contractions, hyperventilation (up to 40 breaths per minute), tachycardia (up to 180 beats per minute), and increased blood pressure (by 30 to 80 mm Hg systolic and 20 to 40 mm Hg diastolic).


    Women: contraction of uterus from fundus toward lower uterine segment, and contractions of orgasmic platform (five to 12 contractions at 0.8-second intervals)


    Men: with emission, semen spurts out of fully erect penis (three to seven ejaculatory spurts at 0.8-second intervals); contractions of internal organs and signal of ejaculatory inevitability (roughly 1 to 3 seconds before start of ejaculation) are followed by rhythmic contractions of penile urethra and perineal muscles (experienced as orgasm proper); after orgasm, the man is refractory to sexual stimulation for a period of time before he can be stimulated to orgasm again.


    Resolution


    Sympathetic nervous system


    Body returns to pre-excitement phase as vasocongestion is relieved and hyperventilation and tachycardia decrease.


    Women: ready return to orgasm with slow loss of pelvic vasocongestion


    Men: in very young men, a second ejaculation may occur without loss of erection; in older men, involution of penis occurs more rapidly, often within minutes.


    From Nusbaum MRH. Sexual health. Monograph no. 267, Home Study Self-Assessment Program. Leawood, KS: American Academy of Family Physicians, 2001; In: Nusbaum MRH, Hamilton C, Lenahan P. Chronic Illness and Sexual Functioning. 2003;67(2):347.



  • Women tend to experience emotional complaints about sex more than men do. Men typically seek treatment for problems with sexual performance, whereas women are more concerned about sexual feelings.9


  • For women, lack of spontaneous sexual desire is considered within the realm of normal—particularly among older women and those in longer term relationships.11


  • Women’s response to sex is more multidimensional than men’s.12 A woman’s reactions rely on much more than her body’s sexual response. She places great importance on her thoughts and feelings. For women, sex is highly contextual.


  • Women’s experience of arousal is subjective.13 That is, there is a poor correlation between her actual genital arousal and her subjective sense of being aroused.


  • There is a fairly strong relationship between men’s sexual interests and genital arousal. For women, the link between objective genital arousal and their sexual interests or even subjective arousal response is not as strong; for women, objective genital arousal seems to be provoked by nonspecific sexual features.14

In spite of these complexities, women’s bodies are capable of more sexual pleasure than men’s bodies in that many women can have multiple orgasms as well as orgasms that typically involve more muscle contractions. Because she has no refractory period, she is capable of having sex as often as she chooses. In contrast, men in general have a higher level of desire—they are more apt to masturbate, go to strip clubs, watch porn, report more sexual fantasies, desire more frequent sex with more diverse partners, engage in fetish behaviors, and show interest in more varied sexual practices.15 These differences between male and female sexuality often leave the sexes at odds with each other, frustrated and confused.


TALKING WITH YOUR PATIENTS ABOUT SEX

Talking with patients about sexual issues can be challenging for practical as well as personal reasons. First, sexual matters require time and sensitivity to discuss. Simply finding a few minutes for sympathetic dialogue can be difficult. Plus, providers sometimes feel uncomfortable discussing personal and intimate issues with patients. However, research consistently indicates that patients frequently have sexual concerns they would like to discuss with their health care providers.16 Many patients are too self-conscious to bring these up without an invitation. In one survey, 85% of adults wanted to discuss sexual issue with their provider, but 71% thought the provider would not want to or would not have the
time, 76% thought no treatment was available, and 68% were worried about embarrassing their provider.17 As a result, patient’s sexual concerns may remain unaddressed unless the physician takes the initiative to discuss them. Although all patients should be asked about their sexual health and if they have any sexual concerns or questions, there are specific gynecologic situations that clearly warrant screening for sexual dysfunction (Table 9.2).

Patients expect their physicians to be knowledgeable about female sexuality and dysfunction. Today’s patients are already educated from the Internet and the regular attention paid to sexual issues in the media. The sheer prevalence of female sexual concerns leaves a clinician as an important source of information about female sexual dysfunction regardless of whether he or she desires this role.

One simple way to initiate a discussion is to acknowledge to patients that sexual concerns are very common for women of all ages. Invite patients to discuss any issues they have about their sexual functioning, such as possible sexual side effects of medication, age-related sexual changes, or to clarify information they may have learned in the media or on the Internet. This simple invitation gives patients the control to decide whether or not to pursue this dialogue. Do not be surprised if patients initially decline the discussion but then initiate the topic at a later appointment. Start the dialogue with a simple “Are you sexually active?” This is a very appropriate question to ask during the general history taking. A calm demeanor will help diffuse the anxiety this question may provoke. If the patient says yes, ask her, “Do you have any sexual health questions or concerns that you would like to discuss?” If she says no, respond with, “Does that bother you or your partner?” Be prepared for the possibility that a long conversation will ensue. This may in fact be the first time she has verbalized her very personal and intimate concerns. Be respectful of confidentiality and initiate the discussion privately when her partner is not in the room. Take care to individualize the conversation according to the patient’s age, sociocultural background, and sexual orientation. It is important to focus on the positive aspects of sexuality for women during the conversation, that is, the beneficial effects of sexual satisfaction on overall physical health and relationship well-being.








TABLE 9.2 Screening for Sexual Problems









































Situation in Which Screening Question Is Necessary


Suggested Screening Question


Before surgery or instituting medication or hormone therapy


Your surgery or medication is not expected to interfere with your sexual function. I need to check, though, whether you have any difficulties now with sexual desire, arousal, or enjoyment; or is there any pain?


Routine antenatal visit


Women’s sexual needs can change during pregnancy. Do you have any problems or questions now? There is no evidence that intercourse or orgasm leads to miscarriage. Of course, any bleeding or spotting will require checking and postponing sexual activity until we have evaluated you. Many women find fatigue and/ or nausea reduce their sexual life in the first 3 months, but usually things get back to normal for the middle 3 months and sometimes right up to term.


Complicated antenatal visit


These complications may well have already caused you to stop being sexual. Specifically, you should not (have intercourse/have orgasms).


After one or more miscarriages


Some women temporarily lose desire for sex after a miscarriagethis is quite normal. Many couples concentrate on affectionate touching while they both grieve about what has happened. Do allow yourselves some time. If any sexual problems persist, we can address them.


Infertility


All this testing and timed intercourse and disappointment, plus the financial burdens that are coming up, can be very stressful on your sex life. Try to have times when you and your partner are sexual just for pleasure and intimacy’s sakenot when you are trying to conceive. Do you have any problems now?


Postpartum


It may be some weeks or months before you have the energy to be sexual, especially if your sleep is really interrupted. This is normal. If problems persist, or if you have pain, this can be addressed. Do you have any questions right now?


Perimenopause or postmenopause


We know many women have very rewarding sex after menopausemore time, more privacy. If you find the opposite or you begin to have pain or difficulty getting aroused, these things can be addressed. Do you have any concerns now?


Woman who is depressed


I know you are depressed right now, but our studies tell us that sex is still important for many women who are depressed. We also know that some of the medications we prescribe interfere with sexual enjoyment. Do you have any problems right now?


Chronic illness


Arthritis/ multiple sclerosis can interfere with a woman’s sex life. Are you having any problems?


Potential damaging surgery


Obviously the focus right now is to remove your cancer entirely when we do your surgery. The nerves and blood vessels that allow sexual sensations and lubrication may be temporarily and sometimes permanently damaged. If when you have recovered you notice any sexual problems that persist, they can be addressed. Do you have any concerns now?


Bilateral oophorectomy


Your surgery will remove a major source of estrogen and approximately one half of the testosterone your body has been making. Testosterone will still be made by adrenal glands (small glands on top of the kidneys), and some of this gets converted into estrogen. Many women find that these reduced amounts of sex hormones are quite sufficient for sexual enjoyment, but others do not. Any sexual problems that do occur almost certainly can be addressed. Do you have any problems now?


From Berek JS, ed. Berek and Novak’s Gynecology. 14th ed. Baltimore: Lippincott Williams & Wilkins; 2006.


Many patients will likely hope for a quick fix, such as a pill or hormone injection. Unfortunately, sexual problems are rarely so clear-cut that a single medical intervention
solves the problem. When there are no easy answers, this can result in a physician feeling ineffectual and disempowered. The best approach in these moments is to remain compassionate, sympathize with the patient’s discomfort, and offer more complex but potentially more effective alternatives. Creating effective referral networks can greatly assist providers’ effectiveness because many sexual issues are multidetermined and thus too complex for a single professional to treat effectively.

Cultural sensitivity is becoming an increasingly important issue for all physicians as world cultures continue to blend geographically. Cultural and religious values significantly impact people’s experience and expectations of sex as pleasurable or as something to be controlled. They will also influence a patient’s receptivity and interest in discussing his or her sexual concerns. During a sexual interview, directly asking patients what they learned about sex from their culture or religion is a straightforward way to identify how these issues may impact a particular patient. Being sensitive to patient’s cultural background enables more effective communication about sexual issues.

For guidelines in taking a sexual history, see Table 9.3. The discussion should clearly be held with a nonjudgmental attitude. If the ensuing conversation makes the provider uncomfortable, it is best to refer the patient to a medical or psychological specialist in sexual functioning. It is important for providers to acknowledge that everyone has biases when it comes to sexual matters, and they must actively prevent their personal beliefs from influencing their responses when assisting patients with sensitive issues. There are professional societies that provide assistance and advice to providers around the complex issues of sex and sexuality, such as the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health (www.ISSWSH.org).


FEMALE SEXUAL DYSFUNCTIONS

Female sexual dysfunction is common among women of all ages. The diagnostic criteria defining these disorders remain controversial. The various diagnoses are constantly being studied in an attempt to further refine them for the new edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5).18 For better or for worse, DSM classifications are of utmost importance to providers because they influence, if not determine, insurance reimbursements for sexual health disorders or dysfunctions. The DSM and International Classification of Diseases, Ninth Revision (ICD-9) codes for these diagnoses may be found in the back of the DSM manual or via an online search for DSM-5 diagnostic codes.

In the United States, it is estimated that 40% of women have sexual concerns and about 12% report distressing sexual problems.19 Worldwide, about 40% of women report sexual complaints.20

In the Global Study of Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors, the most commonly reported dysfunctions were low libido or sexual drive (26 to 43%) and an inability to reach orgasm (18 to 41%).20 The prevalence of sexual problems was highest in Southeast Asia and lowest in Northern Europe.








TABLE 9.3 Components of the Sexual History for Assessment of Female Sexual Dysfunction















































Area


Specific Elements


Medical history (past and current)


General health (including physical energy level and mood), drugs, pregnancies, pregnancy terminations, STDs, contraception, use of safe sex practices


Relationship with partner


Sexual orientation, emotional intimacy, trust, respect, attraction, communication, fidelity, anger, hostility, resentment


Current sexual context


Presence of sexual dysfunction in partner, activities and behaviors during the hours before attempts at sexual activity, presence of the following:




  • Inadequate sexual stimulation



  • Unsatisfactory sexual communication



  • Disagreement with partner about sexual practices or timing (eg, too late at night)



  • Lack of privacy


Effective triggers of desire and arousal


Books, videos, dates, showering together, dancing, music, type of stimulation (nonphysical, physical nongenital, or penetrative or nonpenetrative genital)


Inhibitors of arousal


Fatigue, stress, distractions such as negative past sexual experiences and fears about outcome (including loss of control, pain, unwanted pregnancy, and infertility)


Orgasms


Presence or absence, response to absence (whether the woman is distressed or not), differences in responses with partner and with self-stimulation


Outcome


Emotional and physical satisfaction or dissatisfaction


Location of pain in dyspareunia


Superficial (introital) or deep in pelvis


Timing of pain in dyspareunia


During partial or full entry, deep thrusting, penile movement, or the man’s ejaculation; immediately after intercourse; or during urination after intercourse


Self-image


Self-confidence; feelings about desirability, body, genitals, or sexual competence


Developmental history


Relationship with caregivers and siblings, traumas, loss of a loved one, abuse (emotional, physical, or sexual), consequences of expressing emotions as a child, cultural or religious restrictions


Past sexual experiences


Type (whether desired, coercive, abusive, or a combination), subjective experience (how rewarding, varied, and pleasing)


Personality factors


Ability to trust, comfort level with being vulnerable, suppressed anger causing suppression of sexual emotions, need to feel in control, unreasonable expectations of self, hypervigilance to self-harm (ie, worrying about pain that inhibits enjoyment), obsessiveness, anxiety, depressive tendencies, poor sexual self-image


STDs, sexually transmitted diseases.


From Porter R, ed. The Merck Manual of Diagnosis and Therapy. Whitehouse Station, NJ: Merck Sharp & Dohme; 2011. http://www.merckmanuals.com/professional/index.html. Accessed November 24, 2013.


A key requirement in diagnosing female sexual dysfunction is that it creates personal distress for the woman, and many studies do not consider this nor do
they include women who are not in sexual relationships. One exception is the largest U.S. study of female sexual dysfunction, the Prevalence of Female Sexual Problems Associated with Distress and Determinants of Treatment Seeking survey (PRESIDE) that included over 30,000 women who responded to validated questionnaires and it included women who were not currently in a sexual relationship.19 This study found that with or without personal distress, 43% of women reported at least one problem with sexual desire, arousal, or problems with orgasm. However, when asked about personal distress associated with the condition(s), only 22% of women reported personal distress and 12% attributed the distress to a specific type of sexual problem. Low levels of sexual desire was the most common sexual problem in respondents (39%), with orgasm difficulties only slightly less prevalent (21%); both were associated with distress in 5% of women.19 The survey found that a poor self-assessment of health significantly correlated with distressing sexual problems for the participants.

In the PRESIDE study, the prevalence of sexual problems increased with advancing age, with the prevalence of distressing sexual problems being highest in women 45 to 64 years of age (15%), intermediate in women ages 18 to 44 years (11%), and lowest among women 65 years of age or older (9%).19 These results are not consistent across all studies. For example, the National Health and Social Life Survey study of 1749 women ages 18 to 59 years who had a sexual partner in the last year found that apart from issues of vaginal lubrication, the prevalence of sexual problems tended to decrease with increasing age.21


The Challenge of Treatment

Female sexual disorders are often challenging to treat— even for practitioners specialized in the treatment of sexual dysfunction. Few medications exist that help to alleviate sexual dysfunctions, which can be frustrating for physicians as well as patients. In contrast, there are many medications that can interfere with sexual functioning. For example, approximately 30 million people are taking selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), and it is estimated that about half of them experience alterations in their sexual behavior. Further, it is estimated that approximately half of this group will have persistent sexual issues even after they discontinue the medication.22 Nonetheless, sexuality—including the lack of it—plays a profound role in many people’s experience of life and their relationships.

For many women, the three major determinants of sexual dysfunction include relationship factors, medical issues, and life phases. Relationship factors, such as stress, financial issues, communication issues, etc., all impact sexuality. Physiologic issues or medical conditions such as diabetes, heart disease, cancer, or medication side effects, to name a few, need to be considered as well. Mental health conditions such as depression or anxiety, and often, the medications used to treat them may create or significantly contribute to sexual problems. Life phases that affect sexual functioning include pregnancy, child rearing, and menopause. These three general areas do not occur in a vacuum, which is why a biopsychosocial treatment model is imperative. “The biopsychosocial model provides a compelling reason for skepticism that any single intervention (i.e., a phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors, supraphysiological doses of a hormone, processing of childhood victimization, marital therapy, pharmacotherapy of depression) will be sufficient for most patients or couples experiencing sexual dysfunction.”23

Many of the ways people cope and relieve stress have a negative impact on their sexual functioning, such as the following:



  • Overreliance on substances including food, nicotine, and alcohol


  • Overreliance on sedentary activity


  • Avoidance of deeper emotions which include depression, anger, and passion


  • Avoidance of vulnerability, maintaining tight control of mind and body

Use of biopsychosocial treatment approaches can help providers in their counseling of patients. These include sympathy and efforts to “normalize” the woman’s concerns by letting her know how common sexual problems are. General health issues such as nutrition, exercise, sleep, and chemical dependence are always an aspect of sexual dysfunction treatment. Psychosocial issues such as mood and stress must be addressed because they are a huge contributing factor to any woman’s sexual experience. The involvement of mental health professionals with expertise in sexuality and/or sex therapy is often helpful as well (Table 9.4).








TABLE 9.4 Outcome of Psychological Therapy for Arousal, Desire, and Orgasm Disorders: Wait List Controls



























Mode of Treatment


Level of Efficacy


Marital and sex therapy plus/minus orgasm consistency traininga


Significant improvements in arousal when sex therapy plus orgasm consistency given versus sex therapy alone


Behavioral and sex therapy, including modified sensate focus therapy


Approximately 60% show significant improvement


Cognitive behavioral therapy


50-74% show significant improvement


Directed masturbation and bibliotherapy


55-82% became orgasmic


Combination of CBT, sensate focus, and directed masturbation


Increased orgasmic response and initiation of sexual activity in majority


CBT, cognitive behavior therapy.


a Orgasm consistency training: encouragement of self-stimulation, sensate focus therapy with partner, and coital techniques to facilitate clitoral stimulation.


From Gibbs RS, Karlan BY, Haney AF, et al. Danforth’s Obstetrics and Gynecology. 10th ed. Philadelphia: Lippincott Williams & Wilkins; 2008.



Other more concrete steps include the recommendation of books specific to the woman’s concerns (individual recommendations are offered in an appendix to this chapter), encouraging her focus on enjoyment of the process of making love versus the goal of penile-vaginal intercourse or orgasm, and encouraging novel sexual activities both partners are willing to participate in as well as doing new activities with their partners as a means of sparking renewed interest in each other.

Similar to what is seen in men, female sexual dysfunction is related to the same risk factors as cardiovascular disease: smoking, hypertension, hyperlipidemia, and endothelial damage.24 Women with hypertension may have decreased lubrication, orgasm, and increased sexual pain, whether the hypertension is treated or not; unfortunately, some antihypertensive drugs used for treatment may induce sexual dysfunctions in women as well.25 Although studies are not consistent, there is some evidence that diabetes may also significantly impact the sexual health of women through neuropathy, endocrine changes, and vascular compromise.26,27

Depression, anxiety, and psychotic disorders are recognized risk factors for sexual disorders even without treatment.28,29 Treatment for these conditions may exacerbate or induce sexual dysfunction, particularly antidepressants, which may cause low libido and difficulty with orgasm. Benzodiazepines, antipsychotic medications, and atypical antipsychotic medications may impact sexual function adversely.

Sexual complaints are common during the postpartum period although there is no evidence of long-term differences in sexual dysfunction between women who delivered vaginally and those who had a cesarean section.30 There is no evidence that parous women have more sexual dysfunction than nonparous women.19

Pelvic organ prolapse and urinary incontinence are associated with sexual health issues, with 26 to 47% of women with urinary incontinence reporting sexual dysfunction.31 In some reports, 11 to 45% of women experience urinary incontinence during intercourse, often with penetration or orgasm.32,33 It is not surprising then, that in the PRESIDE study, urinary incontinence significantly correlated with distressing sexual problems.19 The impact of surgical repair of pelvic floor disorders and sexual functioning is mixed, with some women reporting improvement and others reporting no change or new onset dyspareunia.34,35

In discussing sexual concerns with a woman, it is important to note any and all medications she may be taking; in some instances, it may be necessary to adjust or even change medication regimens to reduce sexual side effects—particularly antidepressants—because they are such a common contributor to sexual dysfunction. Other common medications that may interfere with sexual function include antihistamines, cardiovascular agents, antihypertensives, anxiolytics, and chemotherapy. Antihypertensives including thiazide diuretics, calcium channel blockers, and angiotensin-converting enzyme inhibitors may interfere with normal vasocongestion of the genitals; out of these, thiazides are the most commonly implicated.36 Anticholinergic drugs may decrease vaginal lubrication, whereas SSRIs may lead to diminished desire and problems with orgasm.

Progestin-only contraceptives do not appear to be associated with sexual dysfunction, whereas the effect of combined hormonal contraceptives on sexual health is controversial.37 Although combined hormonal contraception suppresses testosterone levels through pituitary luteinizing hormone (LH) secretion, suppression, and an increase in sex hormone binding globulin, the correlation between this decrease in androgen activity and the sexual function of women using combined hormonal contraception is not clear cut. In fact, the use of exogenous androgens in oral contraceptive users does not appear to improve desire.

Substance use/abuse may also impede normal sexual functioning; alcohol is the most common agent. Other substances such as marijuana, cocaine, and heroine may also result in sexual dysfunction.

In order to establish the diagnosis of female sexual dysfunction, the sexual problem must not only be recurrent or persistent, it must also cause personal distress or interpersonal difficulty.18 Sexual dysfunctions are categorized by the specific phase of the sexual response cycle they occur in, although in practice, many of the disorders are not limited to just one phase and more than one disorder may occur within the same patient. Because many of the female sexual dysfunctions will overlap, it is important to determine the primary disorder, that is, ask the patient what she believes is her primary sexual concern, and then note how any comorbid dysfunctions developed over time. For example, a patient may be concerned about her lack of desire to have sex, but further history taking reveals that she began to develop pain during sex and subsequently, her desire for it declined. In this instance, dyspareunia is the most likely primary dysfunction.

The American Psychiatric Association classification of female sexual disorders has six categories:



  • Hypoactive sexual desire disorder


  • Sexual aversion disorder Female sexual arousal disorder


  • Female orgasmic disorder


  • Dyspareunia


  • Vaginismus18

When speaking with a woman who may have sexual dysfunction, it is clear that a complete medical and medication history must be obtained. The sexual history should include current sexual health problems, the nature of the problems, whether it is she or her partner who is having problems (or both), and whether they cause the patient any personal distress or interpersonal problems. Although a pelvic examination is strongly
recommended for patients with sexual pain, it should also be performed in patients with other sexual health complaints as well to confirm normal anatomy; evaluate for tenderness, masses, or lesions; look for prolapse or atrophy; and evaluate any concomitant gynecologic complaints that may, or may not, be related to the sexual dysfunction (Table 9.5).








TABLE 9.5 Physical Examination




















General exam


Signs of systemic disease leading to low energy, low desire, low arousability (e.g., anemia, bradycardia, and slow relaxing reflexes of hypothyroidism); signs of connective tissue disease such as scleroderma or Sjögren syndrome, which are associated with vaginal dryness. Disabilities that might preclude movements involved in caressing a partner, self-stimulation, intercourse. Disfigurements/presence of stomas, catheters that may decrease sexual self-confidence leading to low desire, low arousability.


External genitalia


Sparsity of pubic hair, suggesting low adrenal androgens; vulval skin disorders, including lichen sclerosus, which may cause soreness with sexual stimulation. Cracks/fissures in the interlabial folds suggestive of chronic candidiasis, labial abnormalities that may cause embarrassment/sexual hesitancy (e.g., particularly long labia or asymmetry).


Introitus


Vulval disease involving introitus (e.g., pallor, friability, loss of elasticity, and moisture of vulval atrophy); lichen sclerosus; recurrent splitting of the posterior fourchette manifest as visible white lines perpendicular to fourchette edge; abnormalities of the hymen; adhesions of the labia minora; swellings in the area of the major vestibular glands; allodynia (pain sensation from touch stimulus) of the crease between the outer hymenal edge and the inner edge of the labia minora (typical of vulvar vestibulitis); presence of cystocele, rectocele, prolapse interfering with the woman’s sexual self-image; inability to tighten and relax perivaginal muscles often associated with hypertonicity of pelvic muscles and midvaginal dyspareunia; abnormal vaginal discharge associated with burning dyspareunia.


Internal exam


Pelvic muscle tone, presence of tenderness, “trigger points” on palpitation of the deep levator ani due to underlying hypertonicity.


Full bimanual exam


Presence of nodules and/or tenderness in the cul-de-sac or vaginal fornix or along uterosacral ligaments; retroverted fixed uterus; pelvic tumor; fecal impaction as causes of deep dyspareunia; tenderness on palpitation of posterior bladder wall from anterior vaginal wall suggestive of bladder pathology.


Adapted from Massachusetts Medical Society. Basson R. Clinical practice. Sexual desire and arousal disorders in women. New Engl J Med. 2006;354:1497-1506.


Depending on the results of the history taking and/or physical examination, further laboratory testing may be warranted, for example, pelvic ultrasound, cervical cultures, thyroid-stimulating hormone (TSH), complete blood count (CBC), or prolactin levels. Androgen levels should not be measured as a means of determining the cause of a sexual problem because they are not an independent predictor of sexual function in women and the available assays for serum androgen levels in women are unreliable. The Endocrine Society Clinical Practice Guideline supports this approach and does not recommend diagnosing androgen deficiency in women because there is no well-defined clinical syndrome associated with this diagnosis, and there are no age-based normative data for serum testosterone and free testosterone concentrations in women.38 Testing for estradiol or other estrogen levels or other sex steroids has no use in evaluating sexual complaints.


Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder

While acknowledging that there is no consensus about what is “normal” desire and that each woman will have her own definition based on her culture, background, sexual experience(s), and her own biologic drive, hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD) is the most common sexual dysfunction among women, with a prevalence rate of approximately 22%.1 HSDD is currently defined in the DSM-5 as persistently or recurrently deficient (or absent) sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity.18 Criticisms of this definition note that it considers sexual thoughts or fantasies to be a primary trigger for sexual behavior, but for women, the desire for sexual activity may be prompted by factors not addressed in the current definition, for example, wanting to experience tenderness, appreciation, or the feeling of desirability. Furthermore, the lack of sexual desire at the start of a sexual encounter does not necessarily indicate HSDD because some women may not feel a desire for sex initially but with sexual stimulation develop the desire. HSDD can be subdivided into a general lack of sexual desire or a situational one where the woman lacks desire for her current partner but still has desire for sexual stimulation either alone or with someone else. HSDD may be acquired, that is, it starts after a period of normal sexual function or it may be lifelong— the woman had always had low or no sexual desire.

The third International Consultation on Sexual Medicine (ICSM) recommended refining HSDD to directly reflect the fact that absence of desire in a woman does not necessarily equate with dysfunction.39 It has been suggested that a lack of female desire is “inevitable” in long-term relationships and even in those partnerships considered healthy.40,41 Research does demonstrate that women with low desire are frequently happy with their romantic relationship and not distressed about their low libido.42 When the criteria of personal distress is taken into account, the prevalence of HSDD drops by about half.43 It is possible that the lack of distress in some of these women is because they feel their situation is hopeless and they have essentially “given up” on their sex lives. It is not known if these women would admit distress if they believed their situation was able to be improved and they could feel sexual excitement again.

Because of its complex etiology, HSDD is perhaps the most difficult sexual concern to treat. Common concerns
expressed by a woman with low desire include loss of pleasure in feeling feminine, a loss of physical and emotional intimacy with her partner, fear of her partner’s infidelity, feelings of disconnection from her body, and feeling detached from sensual physical sensations. Many dynamics contribute to low desire in women, including physical, hormonal, emotional, spiritual, and partner variables (Table 9.6).








TABLE 9.6 Etiologic Factors That Should Be Evaluated When Assessing Desire and Arousal Complaints in Women


























Predisposing Considerations


Precipitating Considerations


Maintaining Considerations


Biological


Endocrine factors, menstrual cycle disorders, history of surgery or medical illness, drug treatments affecting hormones or menstrual cycle, benign diseases


Change in hormonal status as a result of menopause, cancer, use of medications or drugs, current medical conditions


Drug treatment, metabolic/malignant disorders, other chronic medical conditions, hormone treatment


Psychosexual


Past sexual history (both positive and negative), unwanted sexual experiences, history of rape, violence, coercion, body image concerns/issues, personality traits and temperament (extroverted vs. introverted, inhibition vs. excitation), attachment history (past and present), coping resources, social/professional roles and responsibilities


Current relationship satisfaction; affective disorders (anxiety, depression); loss of loving feelings toward partner as a result of discovery of affair, deception, etc.


Anxiety, tension, communication problems


Contextual


Ethnic/religious/cultural messages, expectations, constraints; socioeconomic status/access to medical care and information; social support network


Relationship discord, life-stage stressors (divorce, separation), loss or death of close friends or family members, lack of access to medical/psychosocial treatment, economic difficulties, worries


Cultural myths


From Brotto LA, Bitzer J, Laan E, et al. Women’s sexual desire and arousal disorders. J Sex Med. 2010;7(1, pt 2):586-614.


From a physical perspective, medications—such as antidepressants, oral contraceptives, antihistamines, antihypertensives, and diuretics—can negatively impact libido for some women. A woman who is tired and overworked may lose her interest in sex. A woman’s disconnection from her physical self is an additional variable. In a fastpaced culture, people spend most of their time thinking rather than feeling. Tuning into sexual desire requires tuning into the body more generally and learning to feel pleasure in the body more generally as well. Lifestyle issues, such as poor sleep or inadequate nutrition, are also potential culprits. Emotions such as depression, anxiety, and stress are additional factors in HSDD.43 Poor body image may cause diminished desire. When evaluating women with HSDD, interpersonal issues often need to be addressed as well. If a woman’s lover is unskilled, or if her partner is a man with erectile dysfunction (ED) or premature ejaculation, or if the woman believes her sex life is rote and boring, a woman may lose her desire for sex. These issues are troubling for many women who do not want to hurt a partner’s feelings with negative feedback about their sexual skills. Relationship conflicts and power struggles can also significantly weaken a woman’s receptivity to sex. Relatedly, if she feels a spiritual void with her partner, she may be reluctant to open up to him sexually.

Regardless of how or why a woman’s sex drive initially declines, both her mind and her body tend to be impacted over time. The Women’s International Study of Health and Sexuality (WISHeS) study found that women with HSDD had large and statistically significant declines in health status, particularly in mental health, social functioning, vitality, and emotional role fulfillment.44 Others have found that women with HSDD have more comorbid medical conditions and are twice as likely to report fatigue, depression, issues with memory, back pain, and a lower quality of life.45

A woman’s medical conditions may influence her risk for HSDD, but assuming that a biomedical approach alone will best serve the patient for treatment purposes is not recommended. The biopsychosocial treatment model includes biological, psychological, and social/interpersonal components in its approach and places less pressure on the physician to offer a single solution to such a complex problem. It is imperative that a woman expects to play a significant role in her own treatment rather than waiting for her physician to “heal” her because the patient will probably be disappointed by the latter option. “It is up to the patient to take the risks involved in deepening her sense of connection to her own body and to her partner. The patient must be willing to experiment with her sensual expression, open to feelings of joy and vulnerability with her partner, and let go of control to her partner. She must get adequate sleep and proper nutrition for her body to respond sexually.”46 Thus, HSDD treatment involves a cooperative effort between physician and patient. Many clinicians believe they do not have the tools or the skills to screen or assess patients for HSDD. There are several screening tools available that are easy to use. One example is the Decreased Sexual Desire Screener (DSDS) that is done with the patient. It starts with four questions and if the patient answers “yes” to all of the questions, they continue to the fifth question that has seven parts
(Table 9.7). If the patient is identified as having HSDD, the clinician may choose to employ the PLISSIT model (Fig. 9.3). This model has four steps: permission, limited information, specific suggestions, and intensive therapy. The first step validates the patient’s concerns and makes clear that sexual problems such as HSDD are real and very prevalent. The second step provides basic education to the patient about the sexual response cycle, the components of desire, and possible resources and tools that further discuss the patient’s sexual concerns. In the third step, the clinician may offer suggestions to help improve her desire levels. The final step is often beyond the scope of most clinician’s expertise and involves referral to a specialist in sexual medicine. Sex therapy is brief cognitive behavioral psychotherapy that specifically focuses on sexual concerns; it tends to be short term (5 to 20 visits) and is solution focused. In some instances, referral to a mental health specialist to address other issues or concerns not specifically related to sex may also be helpful for the patient.








TABLE 9.7 The Decreased Sexual Desire Screener Used in the Nontreatment Validation Study






















































Dear Patient, Please answer each of the following questions:


1. In the past, was your level of sexual desire or interest good and satisfying to you?


Yes/No


2. Has there been a decrease in your level of sexual desire or interest?


Yes/No


3. Are you bothered by your decreased level of sexual desire or interest?


Yes/No


4. Would you like your level of sexual desire or interest to increase?


Yes/No


5. Please check all the factors that you feel may be contributing to your current decrease in sexual desire or interest.




A: An operation, depression, injuries, or other medical condition


Yes/No



B: Medication, drugs, or alcohol you are currently taking


Yes/No



C: Pregnancy, recent childbirth, menopausal symptoms


Yes/No



D: Other sexual issues you may be having (pain, decreased arousal or orgasm)


Yes/No



E: Your partner’s sexual problems


Yes/No



F: Dissatisfaction with your relationship or partner


Yes/No



G: Stress or fatigue


Yes/No


When complete, please give this form back to your clinician.


Clinician: Verify with the patient each of the answers she has given.
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th edition, characterizes hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD) as a deficiency or absence of sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity, which causes marked distress or interpersonal difficulty and which is not better accounted for by a medical, substance-related, psychiatric, or other sexual condition. HSDD can be either generalized (not limited to certain types of stimulation, situations, or partners) or situational and can be either acquired (develops only after a period of normal functioning) or lifelong. If the patient answers “NO” to any of the questions 1 through 4, then she does not qualify for the diagnosis of generalized acquired HSDD. If the patient answers “YES” to all of the questions 1 through 4 and your review confirms “NO” answers to all of the factors in question 5, then she does qualify for the diagnosis of generalized acquired HSDD. If the patient answers “YES” to all of the questions 1 through 4 and “YES” to any of the factors in question 5, then decide if the answers to question 5 indicate a primary diagnosis other than generalized acquired HSDD. Comorbid conditions such as arousal or orgasmic disorder do not rule out a concurrent diagnosis of HSDD. Based on the above, does the patient have generalized acquired hypoactive sexual desire disorder? ____YES ____NO


From Clayton AH, Goldfischer ER, Goldstein I, et al. Validation of the decreased sexual desire disorder (DSDS): a brief diagnostic instrument for generalized acquired female hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD). J Sex Med. 2009;6(3):730-738.







FIGURE 9.3 PLISSIT model of sex therapy. (Adapted from Annon JS. The PLISSIT model: a proposed conceptual scheme for the behavioral treatment of sexual problems. J Sex Educ Ther. 1976;2[2]:1-15.)

There are no FDA-approved pharmacologic treatments for women’s sexual dysfunction at this writing. Nonetheless, some women find benefit from testosterone supplementation in the treatment of low desire.47 Challenges to the use of testosterone therapy involve the fact that testosterone assays in this country are male-based and not sensitive enough for women who occupy the lower 10% of those levels. Obviously, it is also challenging to use supplementation intended for men on females. Practitioners are thus forced to use off-label or compounded products, often as an empiric trial after ruling out other causes for low desire. Off-label treatment with testosterone supplementation is controversial, particularly for premenopausal patients. There is a lack of agreement regarding normative ranges for women, as well as no standard formulation for systemic androgen replacement.48,49 Some practitioners, as well as the Endocrine Society, do not recommend testosterone therapy because of the lack of diagnostic levels indicating testosterone insufficiency and the lack of long-term safety data,50 especially with respect to heart disease and breast cancer. Studies have shown mixed results with regards to testosterone in vivo decreasing or increasing breast cell proliferation.51,52 In one study, testosterone in vitro was shown to decrease breast cell proliferation.53 However, many questions remain, for example, does testosterone directly improve libido or is it aromatization to estrogen, and does testosterone work on sex drive directly or indirectly via mood?

Conservative guidelines for practitioners who administer off-label testosterone therapy have made some general, conservative recommendations during testosterone use. For example, according to Basson et al.,54


… the testosterone patch appears to be effective in the short term in postmenopausal women with
HSDD. Achieving physiological testosterone levels by transdermal delivery minimizes adverse effects. Relative contraindications include androgenic alopecia, acne, hirsutism hyperlipidemia, and liver dysfunction. Absolute contraindications include presence or high risk breast cancer, endometrial cancer, venothrombotic episodes, cardiovascular disease. Monitoring should include annual breast and pelvic examinations, annual mammography, evaluation of abnormal bleeding, evaluation for acne, hirsutism, and androgenic alopecia. Monitor testosterone by mass spectrometry (sex hormone binding globulin, calculated free T) with goal of not exceeding normal values. Consider lipid profile, liver function tests, complete blood count. Use for more than 6 months is contingent on clear improvement and absence of adverse effects.

Any discussion about the use of androgen therapy, in any form, must include a full explanation of all potential benefits and risks. Women considering androgen therapy must understand that the data on safety and efficacy is very limited, and this includes data on long-term use, either with or without estrogen therapy (ET). They should also be aware that none of the commonly used androgen therapies are approved by the FDA for treating HSDD because of the limited clinical trial data as well as the concerns about long-term safety. This discussion should be carefully documented in the patient’s records.

Testosterone is the most commonly used androgen treatment for female sexual dysfunction, particularly HSDD. In randomized trials and systematic reviews where it was used with estrogen (with or without progestin)—it has been in postmenopausal women—it did show an improvement in sexual function.55, 56, 57, 58 The formulations and delivery methods vary across studies, although the largest series of controlled clinical trials used a transdermal testosterone patch that delivered 300 mcg/day of testosterone in postmenopausal women with HSDD.56,58 Most of the studies included postmenopausal women who were on concurrent ET, although one large trial found similar results in women not using estrogen/progestin treatment.59 Data on the use of androgen treatment in premenopausal women are scant and inconclusive, and the inadvertent exposure of a developing fetus is a significant potential risk to be considered.60,61

In Europe, the Intrinsa 300 mcg testosterone patch is approved for use in female sexual dysfunction; it is applied twice weekly. Despite the lack of FDA-approved androgen therapies in the United States, products that are used include methyltestosterone, compounded micronized testosterone, compounded testosterone ointments or creams (1 or 2%, use 0.5 g every day applied to the skin on the arms, legs, or abdomen), and testosterone patches or gels formulated for hypogonadal men. Cutting patches is not advised because there is no data available on product stability or the resulting testosterone levels. Gels are difficult to use because the amount needed would be approximately 1/10th the dose prescribed for men, and this is very hard to accurately gauge with gels in pumps or packets. There have been FDA reports of adverse events due to secondary exposure of children to the skin of adults who recently applied topical testosterone. Use of oral formulations may result in adverse changes in liver enzymes or lipid levels because of the first-pass hepatic metabolism.

Flibanserin is a 5-hydroxytryptamine (5-HT)1A agonist and 5-HT2A antagonist, which reduces the inhibitory effect of serotonin on dopamine and norepinephrine. It is a nonhormonal, centrally acting agent, which went before FDA review after completion of its phase III clinical trials in 2010, but it was not approved, in large part because the absence of long-term treatment data made it difficult to evaluate effectively.

Although there was hope initially that phosphodiesterase type 5 (PDE5) inhibitors such as sildenafil would be beneficial in women with female sexual dysfunction, studies reported inconsistent results.62, 63, 64 There is some evidence that sildenafil may have good results on sexual arousal and orgasm in premenopausal women with SSRI-associated sexual dysfunction.65 However, there was no change in sexual desire for women in this study.

There is some evidence that bupropion, 150 mg twice a day or sustained release 300 mg/day, may increase sexual desire, arousal, and orgasm compared to placebo, but more trials are clearly needed.66,67


Sexual Aversion Disorder

Sexual aversion disorder (SAD) is defined by the DSM-5 as a persistent or recurrent extreme aversion to, and avoidance of, all (or almost all) genital sexual contact with a partner, which causes distress or interpersonal difficulty. These patients steer clear of sex at all costs. In SAD, the scope of sexual stimuli that produce the aversion range from a specific act or aspect of the sexual encounter (e.g., direct genital contact) to any and all sexual stimuli (including kissing and embracing). Given that a core feature of the human condition is sexuality, the impact of any sexual phobia or aversion can be quite profound. SAD may be lifelong or acquired, generalized or situational, and may be due to psychological or combined factors.

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