Sexuality

CHAPTER 25 Sexuality



25A. Sexual Development and Sexual Behavior Problems



Sexual behavior problems (SBPs) are deviations from typical sexual development and are defined as child-initiated behaviors that involve sexual body parts (i.e., genitals, anus, buttocks, or breasts) and are developmentally inappropriate or potentially harmful to themselves or others.1 Information about sexual development and guidelines for differentiating typical sexual behaviors from SBPs are rarely integrated in child development books or other types of parent educational materials. Thus, parents are often unsure how to determine whether sexual behaviors, such as interactions between children involving touching of genitals, are just “playing doctor” or something of concern. Parental guidance on sexual matters provided by developmental pediatricians facilitates caregiver’s education and decision making. Sexual behaviors occur on a continuum ranging from typical to problematic; therefore, to accurately identify and manage problems related to sexual behavior of children and youth, a good foundation in sexual development is necessary. Research on childhood SBPs is relatively new, although significant progress has been made since the 1980s in distinguishing typical development from SBPs, as well as in understanding the origins, trajectory, and treatment of SBPs in youth.


This chapter provides an overview of typical sexual development, knowledge, and behavior of preschoolers, school-aged children, and adolescents. To facilitate understanding of the terms and concepts, definitions of key variables are provided. SBPs are defined with information on origins of the behavior, developmental progression, assessment, and treatment outcome research for children and adolescents. Guidelines for distinguishing typical sexual behavior from SBPs are provided, as are references for parental education guidelines. Gender identity disorder is not discussed in this section; it is addressed in Chapters 25B and 25C.


We are not aware of another text designed specifically for developmental-behavioral pediatricians that covers both sexual development and the identification, assessment, treatment of, and response to SBPs across childhood and adolescence. A number of references provide pediatricians with information about typical sexual development and parental guidance suggestions, including provision of sex education.26 In addition, Horner provided a pediatric-focused brief review of sexual development and SBPs in children, including two case studies.7 The Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers (ATSA) Task Force on Children with Sexual Behavior Problems published a report on the identification, assessment, treatment, and public policies on children with SBPs, but this report does not address adolescence.8 Older reviews include an excellent book on sexually aggressive youth by Araji9; a chapter that also includes information on children with SBPs, adolescent sexual offenders, and adult sexual offenders10; and practice parameters provided by the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry.11 Readers of these older reviews are advised to recognize that research published more recently updates previous assumptions, particularly regarding trajectory of the behaviors, long-term risk, and treatment outcome.



TERMINOLOGY


For this chapter, sex and gender are distinguished as follows: Sex is the classification by male or female reproductive organs,12 whereas gender is the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex.13 Genitals refers specifically to external organs of the reproductive system, but references to “private parts” also include buttocks, anus, and breasts. Before specific information about how sexual knowledge and behavior evolve over the course of childhood and adolescents is provided, clarification in terminology would facilitate understanding of the research. In regard to knowledge about sexual matters, researchers have examined a wide range of children’s understanding of sex and sexual matters. Table 25A-1 lists the terms used in this chapter with their definitions.


TABLE 25A-1 Terms Used in This Chapter, Their Definitions, and Areas of Knowledge



























































































Term Definition Reference
Term Used in This Chapter
Gender Behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex 13
Sex Classification by male or female reproductive organs 12
Genitals The organs of the reproductive system; especially the external genital organs 13
Private parts or sexual body parts Genitals, buttocks, anus, and breasts  
Sex role or gender role The degree to which an individual acts out a stereotypical masculine or feminine role in everyday behavior 157
Sexual orientation The inclination of an individual with regard to heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual behavior 13
Sex preferences Sex that children prefer to be like, to identify with, and to imitate in regard to sex role behavior 16
Childhood sexual behavior Child-initiated behaviors involving sexual body parts (i.e., genitals, anus, buttocks, or breasts) 1
Sex play Childhood sexual behavior that occurs spontaneously and intermittently, is mutual and noncoercive when it involves other children, and does not cause emotional distress 1
Sexual curiosity Sexual behavior or questions about sexual matters motivated by inquisitive interest  
Sexual behavior problems in children and adolescents Child and adolescents-initiated behaviors involving sexual body parts (i.e., genitals, anus, buttocks, or breasts) that are developmentally inappropriate or potentially harmful to themselves or others 1
Interpersonal or intrusive sexual behavior problems Sexual behavior problems that involve two or more individuals and direct physical contact 146
Aggressive sexual behaviors Sexual behavior problems that involve coercion, force, hostile intent, harm, or threatened harm  
Adolescent sexual offender Adolescents between the ages of 13 and 17 years who commit illegal sexual behavior as defined by the sex crime statutes of the jurisdiction in which the offense occurred 121
Areas of Knowledge
Labels of female genitalia Terms for female genitalia, such as vagina or a slang term 18
Labels of male genitalia Terms for male genitalia, such as penis or slang term 18
Physiological distinctions between sexes Understanding of the basic genitalia differences between sexes (i.e., boys/men have penises and girls/women have vaginas) rather than basing sex differences on other physical, behavioral, or character differences, often related to cultural gender distinctions (e.g., for white American children, beliefs that boys/men have short hair and girls/women have long hair) 18
Pregnancy and birth Knowledge related to conception, roles of both father and mother in conception, intrauterine growth, and birth process (i.e., cesarean or vaginal delivery) 18
Adult sexual behavior Behavior of adults related to intimate interactions, arousal, and/or stimulation of genitals, including kissing, masturbation, and sexual intercourse; not limited to procreation 18
Knowledge of sexual abuse Conceptualizations of sexual abuse, abusers, victims, and consequences of abuse 18


SEXUAL DEVELOPMENT



Early Childhood: Infants, Toddlers, and Preschoolers (Aged 0 to 6 years)



PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT


Even as infants, children are capable of sexual arousal; newborn boys have penile erections, and baby girls are capable of vaginal lubrication.1416 Otherwise, until puberty, there is limited change in physical sexual development (including hormonal and gonad changes) during early childhood.3



SEXUAL KNOWLEDGE


Children as young as 3 years of age can identify their own sex and, soon after, identify the sex of others.17,18 Initially distinctions between the sexes are based on visual factors found in the culture (such as hair), although by age 3 or 4 years, many children are aware of genital differences.18,19 Both girls and boys have been found to be more likely to know labels of male than of female genitalia.2022


Much of the research on sexual knowledge of preschool children was conducted before 1997.19,20,2326 Interestingly, the same pattern of results for toddlers and preschoolers have been found in a more recent study on knowledge of genital differences, pregnancy, birth, procreation, sexual activities, and sexual abuse.18 Preschool children’s understanding of pregnancy and birth tends to be vague until age 6, when most report knowledge of intrauterine growth, a third know about the concept of fertilization, and most know about birth by cesarean or vaginal delivery. Knowledge of adult sexual behavior was most often limited to behaviors such as kissing and cuddling; only 9% of 3-year-olds mention explicit sexual behaviors, increasing to 21% for the 6-year-olds, and another 8% of 6-year-olds can give detailed descriptions of the acts. The rate of this behavior is affected by abuse: Sexually abused 2- to 5-year-olds have been found to talk more about sex than do preschool-aged children in normative samples of (33% and 2%, respectively).27



SEXUAL BEHAVIOR


Preschool-aged children are curious in general and tend to actively learn about the world through listening, looking, touching, and imitating. Children as young as 7 months have been found to touch and play with their own genitalia; this behavior is found in both sexes but is more common in boys.15,16 Infants’ and young children’s self-touch appear largely related to curiosity and pleasure seeking.3 Children aged 2 to 5 years look at others when they are nude, intrude on others’ physical boundaries (e.g., stand too close to others), touch their own genitalia even in public, and touch women’s breasts (occurring in at least 25% of normative samples27,28). Preschool-aged children’s general curiosity about the world manifests with questions and exploratory and imitative behaviors concerning sexual body parts.3 Although gender role behavior is seen as early as age 1, dressing like the opposite sex is also not unusual throughout this developmental period (14% of boys and 10% of girls).27,28 Boys demonstrate strong same-sex preferences early in the preschool years that increase in strength over time, whereas girls’ same-sex preferences, strong in the preschool years, wanes in later years.16


Nonintrusive sexual play of showing sex parts to other children was found in 9% of preschoolers, and 4.5% were reported to have touched another child’s sexual body parts (reported by mothers).27 Sexual play is discussed in more details in the next section. Culture and social context affects the incidence of these typical behaviors, inasmuch as frequencies of these behaviors have been found to differ by the population and the situation studied.2932 Cultural effects are described in more detail later in this chapter.


Intrusive (putting finger or objects in another child’s vagina or rectum), planned, and aggressive sexual acts were not reported by anyone in a normative sample of mothers of preschool children.33 Other rare behaviors include putting objects in vagina/rectum, putting the mouth on sexual body parts, and pretending toys are having sex.29,27,32



School-Aged Children (Aged 7 to 12 Years)



PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT


Pubertal development on average begins around 10 years of age, with girls starting earlier then boys, and can begin as early as 7 or 8 years of age. For girls, early puberty starts with a growth spurt in height, followed by a growth spurt in weight. Boys’ growth spurts are often later than girls,2 and occurs with acceleration of the growth of the testes and scrotum, enlargement of the larynx, and deepening of the voice.16 There is wide variation, affected by a variety of factors (e.g., nutrition, heredity, race), in the onset and course of puberty, including a 4- to 5-year age range for the onset of puberty.16 This variability can have significant effects on social adjustment of youth. Further information about puberty is provided later in the section on adolescent sexual development.




SEXUAL BEHAVIOR


School-age children’s behaviors become more guided by societal rules, which restrict the types of sexual behavior demonstrated in public. Sexual behavior continues to occur throughout the school-age period, but it is more concealed, and thus caregivers may not be directly aware of the behavior. In contrast to younger children, school-aged children are much less likely to touch their private parts in public or women’s breasts.27 However, they are more interested in media and are more likely to seek out television and pictures that include nudity.27 Masturbatory behaviors occur, with an increase in frequency in boys during this developmental period.16 Modesty emerges during this developmental period, particularly in girls, who become more shy and private about undressing and hygiene activities.34


During the early school years, children tend to seek out and interact with children of the same sex.35 Interest in the opposite sex increases near the end of this developmental period with puberty, and interactive behaviors initiates with playful teasing of others. A small but substantial portion is involved in more explicit sexual activity, including sexual intercourse, at the end of this developmental period.36



SEXUAL PLAY


Sexual play is distinguished from problematic behaviors in that childhood sexual play involves behaviors that occur spontaneously and intermittently, are mutual and noncoercive when they involve other children, and do not cause emotional distress.1,8 Sexual play typically occurs among children of similar age and ability who know and play with each other, rather than between strangers. Interpersonal sexual play often occurs between children of the same sex and can include siblings.16,37,38 Experiencing sexual play at least once during childhood appears prevalent (reported by more than 66% to 80% of adults in retrospective research) and can occur in children as young as 2 or 3 years. Many incidents of sexual play in school-aged children may be unknown by caregivers, because the behaviors are more likely to be hidden with increased awareness of social norms.3739 Some degree of behavior focused on sexual body parts, curiosity about sexual behavior, and interest in sexual stimulation are a normal part of child development. This type of exploratory sexual play (periodic and without coercion or force and between children of similar age/abilities) has not been found to negatively affect long-term adjustment,37,4042 although inconsistent results have been found with sibling involvement.43


Childhood sexual play and exploration are not a preoccupation and usually do not involve advanced sexual behaviors such as intercourse or oral sex. Intrusive, planned, coerced, and aggressive sexual acts are not part of typical or normative sexual play of school-aged children; rather, they are perceived as problematic.33 SBPs are discussed more extensively later in the chapter.



Adolescent Sexual Development (Ages 13 to 19 Years)



PHYSIOLOGICAL DEVELOPMENT


During adolescence, changes associated with puberty continue, including enlargement and maturation of the genitalia and secondary sex characteristics.44 Most girls by age 16 have begun to menstruate; the average age at onset is 12 years.3,45,46 Current research indicates that Caucasian girls enter puberty approximately 1 year earlier and African-American girls approximately 2 years earlier than previous studies have shown. The mean age for the beginning of breast development (sexual maturation rating stage 2) in African-American girls has been found to be 8.87 years, and that for white girls, 9.96 years.47 By age 15, most boys are capable of ejaculation.3 About 2 years after pubic hair growth begins, there is development of axillary and facial hair, as well as an acceleration of muscular strength. Hormonal changes that occur during puberty affect sexual interest, behavior, and fantasies.4850



SEXUAL KNOWLEDGE AND BEHAVIOR


It is expected that adolescents have knowledge about sexual intercourse, contraception, and sexually transmitted diseases.3 However, the quality of the knowledge they possess varies greatly across individuals. Evaluations of a variety of sex education programs (e.g., sex education, human immunodeficiency virus [HIV] education, teen pregnancy prevention) targeted at adolescents suggest that such programs do not lead to earlier onset of sex, more frequent sex, or more sexual partners. Many programs have been found to be associated with better outcomes for youths, including delay in the onset of sexual intercourse, increase in the use of contraceptives, and reduction in the number of sex partners. Programs more likely to affect teenagers’ behavior contain several common characteristics, including having and reinforcing messages about abstinence and/or use of contraception, focusing on reducing at least one sexual behavior that leads to pregnancy or HIV infection and sexually transmitted diseases, and providing information about the risks of adolescent sexual activity.51,52


Many studies indicate that increases in sexual behavior during adolescence are not only influenced by hormones but are also affected by social factors, including parental supervision, peer influences, and community characteristics.5355 Several factors have been identified as being associated with the onset of sexual activity in adolescents: (1) less educated mothers; (2) having a boyfriend or girlfriend; (3) lower educational expectations (i.e., no intention of going to college); (4) authoritarian parenting; (5) poor communication with parents about sexuality; and (6) older siblings who are sexually active.45


The majority of teenagers engage in some form of sexual activity, whether masturbation or sexual intercourse. Studies have shown that 25% to 40% of adolescent girls and 45% to 90% of adolescent boys masturbate.49,56 Sexual activity rates in adolescents have increased more than 79% since 1970.57 In 2003, 47% of students in grades 9 to 12 reported that they had had sexual intercourse. Of these high school students, 14% reported having had sexual intercourse with four or more partners.58 Research studies have revealed that 10% to 49% of adolescents have engaged in oral-genital contact, and the incidence is increasing.5961 Sexual experimentation and exploration is normative and may include behaviors with same-sex peers.


Risks associated with increased and early-onset sexual activity are notable, including sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy, substance use, and exposure to and experiences of assault and unwanted sexual experiences. Although condom use has increased, it is not consistent, and approximately 25% of sexually active youths have been found to contract sexually transmitted diseases each year.36 Furthermore, use of substances before sexual activity has increased.62 Youths are at risk for experiences of sexual assault, force, coercion, and violence.2 Other youths are often the offenders in these assaults, and information about management of adolescent sexual offenders is provided later in the chapter.


A summary of sexual development information by age group is provided in Table 25A-2.


TABLE 25A-2 Sexual Development by Age




























































































Development Description Reference
Neonatal Period and Infancy
Boys may have penile erections, and girls are capable of vaginal lubrication. 14, 15
Babies as young as 7 months touch their own genitalia. 15
Preschool Years (Ages 3-6 Years)
Most 3-year-olds’ knowledge of adult sexual behavior is limited to kissing and cuddling, and approximately 30% of 6-year-olds know about more explicit sexual acts. 18, 27
Children identify their own sex and sex of others, initially differentiating sexes by external characteristics (e.g., hair). 18
Children are aware of genital differences of the sexes by the end of this developmental period. 18, 19
Their understanding of pregnancy and birth tends to be vague. 18
They often have questions about, as well as exploratory and imitative behaviors concerning, sexual body parts. 3
They have a vague understanding of pregnancy and birth, with some knowledge of intrauterine growth and birth by cesarean or vaginal delivery by the end of this developmental period. 18
Nudity, looking at other people’s bodies (particularly during hygiene activities), dressing like the opposite sex, and non intrusive sex play are not unusual. 27, 28
School Years (Ages 7-12 Years)
Children tend to seek out and interact with same-sex children. 3
Girls become more shy and private about undressing and hygiene activities. 34
Children have a basic understanding of puberty, reproductive processes, and birth. 3
Pubertal development begins, with girls starting before boys. 2
Breast development begins in girls. 47
There is a wide variation in the onset and course of puberty. 16
Sexual behavior, including sexual play, occurs but is more likely to be concealed than during preschool years. 3
Sexual play typically occurs with children with whom they are interacting, including other children of the same sex and siblings. 16, 37, 38
Sexual play (periodic and without coercion or force and between children of similar age/abilities) has not been found to negatively affect long-term adjustment. 37, 41
Masturbatory behavior increases during this developmental period, particularly in boys. 16
Interest in the opposite sex increases with the onset of puberty. 35
Adolescence (Ages 13-17 Years)
Enlargement and maturation of the genitalia and secondary sex characteristics occur. 44
Most boys by age 15 are capable of ejaculation. 3
Most girls by age 16 have begun to menstruate. 3, 45
Knowledge about sexual intercourse, contraception, and sexually transmitted diseases varies greatly across individuals. 3
Majority of adolescents engage in some form of sexual activity, whether masturbation, oral-genital contact, or sexual intercourse. 49, 56, 5861
Experimentation and exploration of a range of sexual behaviors, including sexual behavior with the same and opposite sex, occurs. 2, 49


SPECIAL TOPICS ON SEXUAL DEVELOPMENT: CULTURAL FACTORS, SEXUAL ORIENTATION, DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITIES, AND SEXUAL ABUSE



Cultural Factors Affecting Sexual Development and Behavior


Children’s public and private sexual behavior, modesty, intimacy, and relationships are affected by their family’s and communities’ cultural values, beliefs, norms, religion, spirituality, socioeconomic, historical, and other factors. For example, social environments with norms in which nudity is acceptable, privacy is not reinforced, and exposure to sexualized material is common have been found to be related to higher frequencies of sexual behaviors in the children than are social environments that reinforce modesty and privacy.28


Parents’ attitudes toward children’s sexuality have been found to affect children’s sexual knowledge and behavior.19 Cultural beliefs may explain normative differences found in cross-cultural studies. For example, mothers of Dutch children report greater frequencies of sexual behaviors in their preschool-aged children than do mothers of American children, which may be related to a more permissive, positive attitude about sexuality and nudity in The Netherlands than in the United States.30 Cultural differences in children’s sexual knowledge (such as physiological distinctions between sexes, pregnancy, and birth) have also been found. For example, preschool-aged girls in the Western hemisphere have been found to perceive that babies were always in their mother’s bellies, whereas Asian boys thought the baby was swallowed.16


Factors may interact, and differences in regard to norms between boys and girls are not uncommon. Implicit and explicit messages about sexual behavior are provided to children and youths through family, friends, neighbors, and the community, as well as a variety of media (including television, movies, music videos, music lyrics, video games, magazines, the Internet, and communications with cell phones). How children sort out the multiple and often conflicting messages about sex, sexuality, and relationships are not clearly understood. However, reduced risk-related behaviors have been found with attentive parenting with close supervision and good communication. Entertainment television can also have a positive effect on youth knowledge, particularly when paired with good communication with parents.63 Ways in which culture may affect educational and intervention approaches are discussed later in the section on intervention.



Homosexuality


Homosexuality does not begin during adolescence. However, adolescence is the most likely time during childhood that concerns about sexuality, sexual orientation, and sexual behavior are presented to the developmental-behavioral pediatrician.


Many youths experiment with and explore a range of sexual behaviors, including sexual behavior with people of the same and opposite sex.2,49 Sexual exploration and behavior are not synonymous with sexual orientation.64 With whom youths have sexual behavior may be more strongly related to who is regularly in their social environment than with sexual orientation. Adolescents with homosexual experiences may identify themselves as having a heterosexual orientation. Furthermore, adolescents with no sexual experience or only heterosexual experiences may identify themselves as homosexual or bisexual.49


National data suggest that 2.3% of men and 1.3% of women in the United States are self-identified as homosexual.60 In the same survey, 1.8% of men and 2.8% of women described themselves as bisexual.60 Accurate prevalence rates are difficult to calculate because of the continuing stigmatization of homosexuality.64 In a survey of junior and high school students from Minnesota, approximately 88% self-identified as heterosexual, 1.6% of boys and 0.9% of girls identified themselves as either primarily homosexual or bisexual, and more than 10% were “not sure” of their sexual orientation.65 More information on homosexuality and development is available in Chapter 25C.



Children and Adolescents with Developmental Delays and Disabilities


Sexual development can be more variable when children and youth have developmental delays or disabilities or chronic medical conditions. Developmental disabilities and medical conditions may be associated with precocious or early-onset puberty (e.g., Down syndrome, traumatic brain injuries, and tumors, including hamartoma), delayed puberty (e.g., Prader-Willi syndrome), or disrupted sexual development (e.g., spinal cord injuries).3,66,67 Historically, professionals and family members have inadequately understood, accepted, and responded to sexual development in individuals with disabilities.3,67 However, as in all children, sexual arousal and sexual behaviors begins at or around birth, pubertal development with the associated sexual feelings typically occurs, and many adolescents with developmental disabilities date and are sexually active.68 Unfortunately, many youths with developmental disabilities have not been provided developmentally appropriate sexual education.67,69 Providing sex education for children with developmental delays is discussed in the section on recommendations concerning clinical care later in this chapter.



Effect of Sexual Abuse on Childhood Sexual Knowledge and Behavior


Sexual abuse affects children’s sexual knowledge, as well as their sexual behavior. Furthermore, sexually abused children have been found to have greater frequencies of a wide range of sexual behaviors in comparison with normative samples and with children who were clinically referred with no known history of sexual abuse.28,70,71 Sexually abused preschool-aged children are at greater risk for inappropriate sexual behaviors (35%) than are sexually abused school-aged children (6%).70


Although most sexually abused children do not demonstrate SBPs, the presence of SBPs raises concern about child sexual abuse and exposure to sexual material. Professionals need to be well aware of the child abuse reporting statutes in their jurisdiction, because reports of suspected sexual abuse may be necessary. Specific sexual behaviors (such as playing with dolls imitating explicit sexual acts and inserting objects in their own vaginas or rectums) are more likely to occur in children who have been sexually abused than in those who do not have a suspected history.27,30,72 The presence of sexual behavior maybe enough to suspect sexual abuse and report to authorities for investigation; however, sexual behavior itself cannot be a sole determining factor for diagnosing sexual abuse.8 Confirming sexual abuse in young children is quite complex, because often there is no physical evidence and no witnesses, and aspects of the abuse (e.g., threats by the perpetrator) hamper clear reporting by the child.73 Additional information on identification and reporting of and response to suspected sexual abuse is provided in The APSAC Handbook on Child Maltreatment (2ed) by Myers JEB, Berliner L, Briere J et al, 2002.



SEXUAL BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS


Not all sexual behavior among youth is normative or appropriate. In the following discussion, SBPs in youth are defined, with information about the prevalence, origins, and trajectory of SBPs, as well as current findings on assessment, treatment, and management. Because of developmental and legal distinctions, children with SBPs are discussed separately from adolescents.



Problematic Sexual Behavior during Childhood (Ages 3 to 12 Years)


Sexual behavior in childhood occurs on a continuum from typical to concerning to problematic.74 SBPs do not represent a medical/psychological syndrome or a specific diagnosable disorder; rather, they represent a set of behaviors that are well outside acceptable societal limits.8 SBPs in this context are defined as child-initiated behaviors that involve sexual body parts (i.e., genitals, anus, buttocks, or breasts) and are developmentally inappropriate or potentially harmful to themselves or others.1 SBPs may range from problematic self-stimulation (causing physical harm or damage) to nonintrusive behaviors (such as preoccupation with nudity, looking at others) to sexual interactions with other children that include behaviors more explicit than sexual play (such as intercourse) to coercive or aggressive sexual behaviors (of most concern, particularly when paired with large age differences between children).


Although the term sexual is used, the intentions and motivations for these behaviors may not be related to sexual gratification or sexual stimulation. Rather, the behaviors may be related to curiosity, anxiety, reenacting trauma, imitation, attention-seeking, self-calming, or other reasons.1


Children as young as 3 and 4 years of age with SBPs have been described in the literature.7578 Girls may be somewhat more likely than boys to be referred for services for SBPs during preschool years78 and boys during the school years.79,80 However, no population-based statistics on the incidence or prevalence of SBPs in children are available. By definition, most of the sexual behaviors involved are fairly rare.28 Since the 1980s, there has been an increase in the number of children with SBPs who have been referred for child protective services, juvenile services, and treatment in both outpatient and inpatient settings.81 The increase in referrals may represent an actual increase incidence of such behaviors, changing definitions of problematic sexual behavior, improved awareness and reporting of what has always existed, or some combination of these factors.8


The prevalence of sexual behavior for specific races, ethnic groups, religious groups, and socioeconomic groups is unknown. In groups in which there are extremely high rates of sexual abuse at a young age, the children are at higher risk for developing problematic sexual behaviors.



ORIGINS OF SEXUAL BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS IN CHILDREN


Social context, individual characteristics, disruptive experiences, and the interactions of these factors affect the course of sexual development.9 Sexual abuse is one type of disruptive experience affecting sexual development. Children, particularly preschool age children,70 who have been sexually abused are more likely to demonstrate SBPs than are children without such a history.28 However, many children with SBPs have no known history of sexual abuse.76,78,79,82 The development of SBPs appears to have multiple origins, including exposure to family violence, physical abuse, parenting practices, exposure to sexual material, absence of or disruption in attachments, heredity, and the development of other disruptive behavior problems.33,8385 For some children, SBPs may be one part of an overall pattern of disruptive behavior problems,83,86,87 rather than an isolated or specialized behavioral disturbance.



RISKS AND COMORBIDITY OF SEXUAL BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS


Regardless of the causal pathway, a young child’s demonstration of SBPs is associated with a variety of negative consequences in adjustment and development. Trauma histories and related trauma symptoms are common, particularly in young children with SBPs.78,87 Children with SBPs often exhibit other behavior problems and disruptive behavior disorders.78,79,84,87,88 Poor impulse-control skills, aggressive behaviors, and inaccurate perceptions of social stimuli hinder social relationships and cause problems at school.9,79,8890 Socialization difficulties and stigmatizing responses from peers and adults may impede developing self-concepts.91 Poor boundaries and indiscriminate friendliness may increase risk of future victimization.78,92 Furthermore, children with SBPs are at risk of separation from parents and of placement disruptions.78,79,93,94



CLASSIFICATION


There is much to be learned about subtypes of SBPs, because the research in this area is limited to a few studies. Youths with more frequent and more intrusive SBPs are more likely to have other behavior and emotional problems, to have caregivers with histories of trauma, and to have learning difficulties than are children with less frequent or nonintrusive sexual behaviors.95,96 Typological examinations of comorbidity have suggested the differential effects of trauma and disruptive behavior, as well as gender’s effect on rate of sexual behaviors.87 Otherwise, how types of SBPs affect the functioning of the children demonstrating the behavior, the trajectory of SBPs and related concerns, and responsiveness to interventions are unknown.




ASSESSMENT OF SEXUAL BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS (AGES 3 TO 12 YEARS)


When caregivers report concern about the sexual behavior of children, an initial screening can facilitate the need for further clinical assessment. Gathering information about the type, frequency, duration, level of intrusiveness, harm, use of coercion, and course of behaviors can facilitate distinguishing typical from problematic sexual behaviors. The Child Sexual Behavior Inventory (CSBI)27 is the only norm-based parental report measure of child sexual behavior with gender and age norms for ages 2 to 12 years. It is a 38-item measure used to assess boundary issues, showing of private parts, self-stimulation, sexual anxiety, sexual interest, sexual knowledge, interpersonal and intrusive sexual behavior, and looking at others’ private parts. It is easy to administer and score; the Total Scale Score provides a T-score and a percentile that are based on age and gender norms. The published manual recommends that the CSBI be administered by mental health professionals with training in psychological assessments. It is important to note that this published version does not include any items concerning sexual aggression. Friedrich33 evaluated four such items and found none of them to be endorsed by mothers in a normative sample. Friedrich also provided a checklist to assess exposure to sexualized material, supervision, and privacy, which facilitates developing a safety plan with the family.33


Assessment of the situations or circumstances under which SBPs seem to occur, the social ecology, exposure to sexualized materials, and success of attempts made to correct the behaviors can guide identifying points of intervention and treatment recommendations. The Child Sexual Behavior Checklist, 2nd revision, can help assess contributing factors and identify environmental intervention area, as it lists 150 behaviors related to sex and sexuality in children, asks about environmental issues that can increase problematic sexual behaviors in children, gathers details of children’s sexual behaviors with other children, and lists 26 problematic characteristics of children’s sexual behaviors.98 However, the no norms have been published for the Child Sexual Behavior Checklist.


Comorbid disruptive behavior disorders, affective disorders, trauma-related symptoms, and learning deficits are not uncommon in children with SBPs.7880,84,87 Thus, a broad assessment is warranted and may include such measures as the Child Behavior Checklist (which includes items on sexual behavior),99,100 or the Behavior Assessment System for Children.101 To specifically assess trauma symptoms, the Trauma Symptom Checklist for Children (child report) and the Trauma Symptom Checklist for Young Children (caregiver report) are useful instruments that include subscales related to sexual concerns.102,103 For preschool children, the Weekly Behavior Report104 is useful in assessing a wide range of emotional and behavior problems, including SBPs, and in tracking progress over time.


A common misunderstanding is that if a child has SBPs, he or she must have a history of sexual victimization. Although a history of previous or ongoing sexual abuse increases the risk for developing SBPs,70,72 there appear to be multiple pathways to the development of SBPs, and the presence of SBPs should not be presumed sufficient evidence of sexual abuse. However, when a child exhibits SBPs, it is appropriate for assessors to make direct inquiries into whether the child has been or is being sexually abused.8 Suspected sexual abuse that had not been previously investigated by Child Protective Services necessitates responses consistent with state and regional child abuse reporting statutes. Additional information on management of suspected child sexual abuse is available in The APSAC Handbook on Child Maltreatment (2ed) by Myers JEB, Berliner L, Briere J, et al, 2002.



CASE EXAMPLE


A description of the application of these measures and assessment procedures to a case may facilitate application of the information. An example case of a young child follows:



Jill Doe is a 6-year-old girl who was referred by Child Protective Services after their investigation into possible sexual abuse. Their investigation was inconclusive. There were continued concerns regarding her sexual behaviors. Jill lives with her father and 3-year-old sister. She has sporadic visitations with her mother, who has a substance abuse problem. Jill’s father provided the history of sexual behavior, in which he reported that Jill was found on top of a 4-year-old girl, kissing her and touching her genital area over the clothes. This behavior was followed by observing her embracing and kissing two different young boys at a local park. A couple of months ago, she was found to be making her dolls “have sex,” upon which her father responded by taking the dolls away. Around that time, she also found Jill visually examining her 3-year-old sister’s vaginal area and touching their dog’s private parts. All of these sexual behaviors have continued despite the father’s efforts to stop the behaviors through distraction, removal of toys, and punishment (grounding). In addition to these sexual behaviors, Jill’s father expressed concern about Jill’s sleep problems, nightmares, moodiness, and temper tantrums.


Jill’s father completed the CSBI and Child Behavior Checklist. On the CSBI, he endorsed items reflecting the sexual behaviors noted previously and the Total Standard Score of 23, which falls at the T-score of 108, in the clinical range. Thus, the sexual behaviors Jill has been exhibiting according to her father’s report are much greater in frequency than those of the normative sample of girls her age. Problems were noted in regard to boundaries and interpersonal sexual behavior problems. The Safety Checklist suggested that Jill has been exposed to sexualized materials while in her mother’s care. Furthermore, she often sleeps and bathes with her sister and, at times, her cousins. Jill was reported to have been exposed to violence and substance use. The Child Behavior Checklist scores were 68 for Total Problems, 67 for Externalizing Problems, and 65 for Internalizing Problems. The Weekly Behavior Report indicated that Jill is exhibiting sexual behavior problems a couple of times a week, as well is experiencing nightmares and temper tantrums four times a week. Services for sexual behavior problems and integrating strategies to address behavior problems, nightmares, and abuse prevention skills appear warranted. Work with the caregivers regarding privacy rules, boundaries, and protection from trauma and stress is also indicated. The Weekly Behavior Report measure is brief enough that frequent administration is not burdensome and can track treatment progress.



TREATMENT FOR SEXUAL BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS (AGES 3 TO 12 YEARS)


SBPs have been successfully treated with SBP-specific therapy services for school-age children and preschool children.8,79,105,106 Further, Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy as a treatment for the effects child sexual abuse that includes SBP-specific elements effectively reduces SBPs in sexually abused preschool-aged children.107110 These treatments have been found to be more effective than time (wait periods), play therapy, and nondirective supportive treatment approaches. The types of SBPs found in the children involved in the studies have been wide ranging, with most children demonstrating interpersonal sexual behaviors, and include aggressive sexual behaviors.


One study provided results from a 10-year follow-up on children with SBPs who had been randomly assigned to receive group cognitive-behavioral treatment (CBT) or group play therapy. The study included a clinic comparison group of children with disruptive behavior problems but no SBPs.105 Child welfare, juvenile justice, and criminal administrative data on all the children were collected and were aggregated. The CBT recipients were found to have had significantly fewer future sex offenses than the play therapy recipients (2% vs. 10%) and did not differ from the general clinic comparison (3%).105 The overall rate of future sexual offenses not only was quite low with short-term outpatient CBT that involved families but also was indistinguishable from that of the comparison sample.


Common elements of the effective treatments are outpatient, short-term, cognitive-behavioral and educational approaches; caregiver direct involvement; teaching of rules about sexual behaviors and skills to facilitate maintaining these rules (such as feeling identification, impulse control, and problem-solving skills); sex education; and teaching caregivers efficacious behavior management strategies (such as praise, reinforcement, timeout, and logical consequences). This treatment should be distinguished from CBT approaches to treating adolescent and adult sexual offenders. Efficacious treatment for childhood SBPs have not included components more characteristic of treatment of adults, such as concepts of grooming, offense cycles, predation, or use of techniques such as confrontation or arousal reconditioning.105 For children who have histories of sexual abuse and trauma-related symptoms, a trauma-focused CBT approach that includes SBP-specific strategies has been successful.111113


For some children, the SBP may be part of a general pattern of disruptive and oppositional behaviors. Research on treatment for disruptive behaviors has consistently identified behavior management training as an effective modality.114,115 Integrating SBP-specific treatment components with well-supported treatment models for early disruptive behavior disorders (such as Parent-Child Interaction Therapy,114 The Incredible Years,116 Barkley’s Defiant Child protocol,117 or the Triple P program118) might be considered; however, this approach has yet to be tested in regard to reducing SBPs.


The presence of attention-deficit-hyperactivity disorder is not uncommon in these youth,106 and appropriate treatment is warranted to facilitate control of impulsive behaviors (see Chapter 16). In cases of neglectful, conflicted, or chaotic family environments, interventions focused on creating a safe, healthy, stable, and predictable environment may be the top priority.119 For cases in which insecure attachment is a major concern, short-term interventions emphasizing parental sensitivity have been found to be the most effective.120 Family-based attachment-based treatment may be considered for complex cases involving significant family relationship concerns, as well as comorbid conditions,86 although this approach has yet to be empirically validated.



Problematic Sexual Behavior during Adolescence


Adolescent sexual offenders are adolescents between the ages of 13 and 17 years who commit sexual behavior that is illegal as defined by the sex crime statutes of the jurisdiction in which the offense occurred.121 In general, the legal system (i.e., family or juvenile court, probation officer, judge, district attorney) is involved when an adolescent commits a sexual crime, because of the adolescent’s assumed culpability in committing the crime. The response of the legal system to an adolescent’s sexual crime varies greatly by state and may include court-ordered treatment, probation, imprisonment in a juvenile or adult correctional facility, and/or inclusion in registrations and public notification systems. Approximately one third of sexual offenses against children are committed by adolescents. Sexual offenses against children younger than 12 years tend to be committed by boys aged 12 to 15 years.122,123 The majority of adolescent sexual offenders are male, accounting for 93% of all juvenile arrests for sex offenses, excluding prostitution.124



ORIGINS OF SEXUAL BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS IN ADOLESCENTS


Adolescents with SBPs are a heterogeneous population.125,126 Although it is commonly believed that adolescent sexual offenders were sexually abused themselves, most in fact were not childhood sexual abuse victims.127,128 Some differences in maltreatment history between adolescent boys and girls with SBPs have been found. Adolescent girls with SBPs have been shown to have more severe physical and sexual abuse histories than have adolescent boys with SBPs. For adolescents with SBPs and who have been sexually abused, the girls tended to be sexually abused at younger ages and were more likely to have been abused by multiple perpetrators.127131 There appears to be multiple origins, including abuse history, family stability, and psychiatric disturbances in the development of SBPs in adolescence; however, for many adolescents, there is no known cause.10



RISKS, COMORBIDITY, AND TYPOLOGY


Although professionals have proposed subtypes of adolescent sexual offenders, these subtypes have not yet been confirmed in the literature. What is known is that adolescent sexual offenders are diverse. There are adolescent sexual offenders with few other behavioral or psychological problems and those with many nonsexual behavior problems or other (nonsexual) delinquent offenses. Some have psychiatric disorders. Some adolescent sexual offenders come from well-functioning families; others come from poorly functioning or abusive families.10 Adolescents with SBPs tend to have poorer social skills, more behavior problems, learning disabilities, depression, and impulse control problems in comparison with nonoffending adolescents (see Becker125 for a review). Some differences have been found between adolescents who rape peers and those whose sexual behavior is with younger children. Adolescents whose sexual behavior is with younger children have been found to be younger, to be less socially competent, to have less same-age sexual activity, to be more withdrawn, and to have fewer nonsexual behavior problems than do adolescents who rape peers.132,133 Risk predictors that have been identified for sexual and nonsexual repeated offending, include antisocial tendencies, psychopathy, and larger numbers of victims.134



CONTRASTING ADOLESCENTS WITH SEXUAL BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS WITH ADULT SEXUAL OFFENDERS


Adolescents are different from adult sexual offenders in several important ways: (1) Adolescents are considered more responsive to treatment than are adults135; (2) of sexual offenders who receive treatment, adolescents have a lower sexual recidivism rate than do adults136; (3) adolescents have fewer victims and tend to engage in less aggressive behaviors than do adults137; and (4) most adolescents do not meet the criteria for pedophilia.138 With regard to recidivism, adolescent sexual offenders are less likely to have sexual repeated offenses and are more likely to have nonsexual repeated offenses than are adults.139





RECOMMENDATIONS CONCERNING CLINICAL CARE



Parent Education and Clinical Management: Children (Aged 3 to 12 Years)


Concerns about sexual behavior of youth may manifest in a variety of ways in the medical office. During assessment of a wide range of behavior problems, concerns about respect of other’s boundaries and sexual acts may arise. As sexual behavior, particularly in young children, often raises suspicion of sexual abuse, such children’s caregivers may express concern about possible victimization of the child. Families and other professionals may seek advice for follow-up and management once SBPs have been identified.


Parents are generally interested in and expect pediatricians to discuss normal sexuality and sexual abuse prevention.143 When there are concerns about SBPs, information provided depends on the results of the initial screening and, if warranted, further evaluation. In determining whether sexual behavior is inappropriate, it is important to consider whether the behavior is common or rare for the child’s developmental stage and culture, the frequency of the behaviors, the extent to which sex and sexual behavior have become a preoccupation for the child, and whether the child responds to normal correction from adults or whether the behavior continues after normal corrective efforts.119 In determining whether the behavior involves potential for harm, it is important to consider the age/developmental differences of the children involved; any use of force, intimidation, or coercion; the presence of any emotional distress in the children involved; whether the behavior appears to be interfering with the children’s social development; and whether the behavior causes physical injury.9,144,145


Parent education may include information about typical sexual development and how to distinguish SBPs from sex play; specific instructions for reducing exposure to sexually stimulating media or situations in the home; instructions for monitoring interactions with other children; suggestions for how parents should respond to sexualized behaviors; and teaching children rules about privacy, sexual behavior, and boundaries.119,146


Parents and caregivers often are understandably concerned about the causes of the SBP. In some cases, there appears to be relatively clear sequence of events that explain the development of the SBP (such as young child’s being sexually abused by an uncle, followed by the child’s repeating the behavior with another child at daycare). However, such direct pathways are often not present, inasmuch as causes for human behavior can involve the interplay of multiple factors, and may not be fully knowable.8 Parents can be reassured that children with SBPs can be treated successfully without clear evidence of the origins of the behavior, with the exception of situations of ongoing sexual abuse.


Ongoing sexual abuse is of serious concern, both for the child’s welfare and for the success of intervention efforts. Indeed, subsequent sexual abuse appears to increase the likelihood of future SBPs.105 In cases in which the Child Protective Services investigation of sexual abuse yields inconclusive results, interventions focused on educating children about sexual abuse, identifying whom children may tell if they were being abused, having significant adults support this message, and building support systems around the child have been recommended.73 Repeated questioning and interviewing the child after thorough investigations are not recommended, because they may lead to inaccurate information and have potential deleterious effects on the child.119

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