Difficult Encounters

Chapter 101 Difficult Encounters






Medical Knowledge and Patient Care


What defines a “difficult encounter”? For me, it is every time I have to deliver bad news or exchange emotionally charged information with a child’s caregiver or family or with an adolescent patient. Examples of these types of encounters are:








A more insidious type of difficult encounter occurs with parents of children with terminal, chronic, or fabricated disease (Munchausen syndrome by proxy). Over time the doctorpatient relationship may become strained because the parent becomes increasingly dissatisfied and demanding, despite tremendous effort by the doctor. In this case, almost every encounter with the parent is difficult.1 Decision making in palliative care of a dying child may lead to difficult discussions about how much or how little treatment should be given.2


When a child dies suddenly, it is important to understand that sudden death is more common than anticipated death in this age-group. Unexpected child death may spark secondary reactions, such as posttraumatic stress disorder in parents, families, and health-care workers. Doctors should inform family members of this and encourage them to seek help if they develop symptoms. The same is true for involved members of the health-care team.


When a child is diagnosed with a terminal or chronic disease, caregivers need accurate, consistent information about the illness, treatment options, and prognosis. Caregivers/parents, and at times the child, need to be involved in the decision-making process. Their opinions need to be respected. Physicians caring for terminally ill children should be knowledgeable about palliative care and pain management. It is important to develop a care plan including directives about life-sustaining measures.2 The goal is to keep the child comfortable and prevent unnecessary procedures and therapies.


Medical knowledge of risk factors, signs, symptoms, and physical examination findings about physical/sexual abuse and child neglect is the key to recognition. Heightened awareness leads to timely reporting to child protection agencies and law enforcement and can potentially save the child’s life or prevent future mental and physical disability in the child and his or her siblings.3



Practice-Based Learning and Improvement


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Jul 18, 2016 | Posted by in PEDIATRICS | Comments Off on Difficult Encounters

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